Companion Tests
More lenses
on yourself.
Your Love Not Fear profile gives you the love/fear frame on your patterns. These short, validated tests layer in other models that answer different questions about you — traits, relationships, career, conflict. Take only the ones that resonate.
Start with the LNF Assessment →The Big Five
OCEAN traits · Mini-IPIP
The most-replicated personality model in psychology. Five trait dimensions that show up consistently across cultures and ages.
The Enneagram
Ichazo · Naranjo · Riso & Hudson
Nine types, each with a core fear and a specific growth direction. The Enneagram names the exact dynamic at the root of your patterns.
Attachment Style
Bowlby · Ainsworth · Shaver
How you move between closeness and space. Take this with someone you love and compare notes.
Love Languages
Gary Chapman (1992)
How you prefer to give and receive love. One of the highest-leverage conversations a couple can have.
Career Interests
Holland Codes · O*NET
Your 3-letter Holland code (like SEI or IAE). The most-used vocational framework in the world — predicts where you'll thrive at work.
Work Motivation
Self-Determination Theory
Where your work effort actually comes from — external rewards, internal pressure, alignment, or inherent enjoyment. Predicts burnout risk.
Conflict Style
Thomas-Kilmann
Your default move when people disagree: compete, accommodate, avoid, collaborate, or compromise.
Coming soon
A few more lenses in the works
- Somatic Awareness — how fear and love show up in your body
- Work Style — collaborative vs. independent, structured vs. flexible
- Core Life Goal — what you most want your life to contribute
- AI-guided Core Values — an interactive exercise that surfaces your 5\u20137 values and a memorable acronym
- AI-guided Vision & Mission — where you're going, why you're here
Start where it makes sense.
Most people start with the Love Not Fear assessment, then add one or two companion tests. There's no right order — follow what calls you.
Take the LNF Assessment →